The person who are reading this can be a woman of any age, it doesn’t matter. You must really need to know about your nature.
As a women you know all about your physical aspect areas, there are other things that really mess up your life.
For a funnier part you may heard of, or read or watched in the movies, Youtubeee.. that women are hard to understand, even if a man reads tons of books, it would not be enough to understand his women, and that’s because in true women even don’t understand themselves. They are really unpredictable for themselves, some of them may agree and some not. But you can agree that those are your setbacks.
Have you ever thought apart from family pressure, pregnancy, childbearing; why women cannot achieve as men do.
Here I’m not talking about scoring more in college, getting gold medal in college or getting best employee award.
When it comes to women, they may be successful in their career but around 95% of the women around the world have not achieved their dreams, It is easy to work under some institution, some company but when it comes to achieving the dream that they set, they really need to have mental toughness.
When compared with men, woman are more emotional. When you are emotional, you will not think. When you think, you won’t become emotional it happens vice versa.
The surrounding take that for granted, if you are an emotional person, it is said that you will get emotionally easily, it means that you can be manipulated so easily by anyone. In that case it will be easy for anyone to take to out of the track of your dreams. In many countries, women are promised that they can achieve their career success even after their marriage. But that is the biggest lie. Once they get married to someone, the parents start to expect baby from them so them they can become grand parents..
Do you think, a woman with great vision won’t accept for pregnancy? Not at all, she will eventually accept it. For this purpose, there are agents out there, The groom, the groom’s relatives, her own parents, her relatives. Having heard all their opinions, she will change her decision and decide to give birth to a baby, but it does not stop there. One baby will not enough, because in future single baby would suffer without the playmate.
After giving baby birth, as babies are so tender, she has to take care of them. This is where the real story starts.
Nature built humans not to achieve career goals or acheive some thing big within humans, we all bought into this world to just survive as like other animals, through reproduction we keep on passing our genes and this leads to human survival.
Mainly in human beings, a baby cannot survive without the care of the mother. So, by nature, all the mothers are programmed to take care of the baby, if not why she would take care? She has no reason to take care of that baby because there is no use for her she does that, and to do that she really has to go through lot of tough times.
She can be able to do that because after giving birth she was changed physically, emotionally and mentally. These changes will her to give top priority to the child that she gave birth to. Because of which she keeps on thinking about the baby and its’ wellbeing. Even though she gives her focus to some other thing, it will not be 100%. Her subconscious mind keeps on reverting back to the child. That’s because she will be so emotionally attached to her baby. The emotionality part of the woman increases little after they give birth.
It doesn’t mean after marriage a woman can’t have career success, it means that when you are too emotional you will not be in your control and others will take advantage.
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